The “Safety First, Sexy Second” 3-Step Plan:
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Buddy-Up — Choose a trusted friend to be your safety check-in; send screenshots of who you’re meeting and share your location.
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Hookup — Be your sexy self and have fun.
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Follow-Up — Set a time to check in and let your buddy know that you’re safe or if you need help.
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Stay Safe When Meeting Someone New
Whether you meet at a bar, a party, cruising, or on dating apps like Grindr, Scruff, or Recon. Remember a simple three-step process, “Safety First, Sexy Second,” to protect yourself while keeping the fun alive.
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BUDDY-UP — Choose a trusted friend to be your safety check-in; send screenshots of who you’re meeting and share your location.
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HOOKUP — Be your sexy self and have fun.
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FOLLOW-UP — Set a time to check in and let your buddy know that you’re safe or if you need help.​
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​For over 45 years, the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence have used humor, activism, and community engagement to spread messages of love, safety, and radical inclusivity. “Safety First, Sexy Second” is a modern extension of this mission—reminding everyone that taking care of each other is always sexy.